at this point in my life, I want a partner who's like me, I did all the work, I did everything to make myself the bestest version of me and I'm not settling for anything less than I deserve and it's not fair for me to let someone in who is not willing to do the work who's is not willing to journey with me and who's not willing for mutual support relationship works if you both have willingness to help elevate each other to help heal each other to help grow each other and there are people out there is exactly like me i can't be a giver anymore. i want to be loved, nourished, taken care of, spoiled and prioritized. not just by word, by actions too